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Don Boivin's avatar

Whew, this discussion right here probably embodies the whole history and source of religion and spirituality. I'm looking at your questioner's comment: "If a scientifically undemonstrable idea reduces anxiety, thus making this difficult life somewhat more tolerable or more enjoyable, is not this a sufficiently good reason to entertain that idea?"

I remember when I was 19—many years ago—and my girlfriend and I were discussing religion. She said, "People need something to believe in." I never forgot that statement. I'll admit I was somewhat disappointed because she was a very intelligent girl and I couldn't believe she would endorse believing in something only because you "need" to. I think I may have held out my hand and said, "I 'need' a hundred dollars. Well... where is it?" (I've matured since then haha)

But that's the thing: why was I not capable of going down that path when so many others were? Why was I wary of walking along a sidewalk that was likely to collapse on me when I needed it the most? I'd rather risk snakes in the jungle than a sidewalk that was only a mirage.

If you're not a narcissist who assumes he is right and everyone else is wrong, it really makes you wonder about the human mind in all its various formations and functions. It helps you to understand why there is so much chaos and violence in society; because in general it appears that the willingness to believe in an unprovable idealogical concept is going to win over, even as it leads to the need to defend those concepts with one's life (or worse, the lives of one's followers).

We're a fascinating bunch, we humans.

I would say to your questioner; follow that "more tolerable and enjoyable" result of entertaining comforting but imagined concepts and see if it actually leads to more happiness.

Thanks for your courage, Robert!

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Jay Stovall's avatar

Thanks for sharing this back and forth. I was raised Catholic, went to Catholic grande and high schools, and alter boy, and oldest of four. Am now agnostic and appreciate the clarity you explained in the post.

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